نوع مقاله : پژوهشی اصیل
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The purpose of this study was to examine the effectiveness of the "Hold Me Tight" program on attachment style and marital satisfaction in married individuals. The research was of a quasi-experimental type with a single group pre- and post-test design. A total of 15 married individuals living in Mashhad voluntarily participated in the study. Data were collected using the Adult Attachment Styles Questionnaire (AAQ), and the ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale (EEMS). Participants received 10 hours of training during a one-day workshop based on the "Hold Me Tight" package. One-way repeated measures MANOVA showed that the intervention had a significant effect on increasing secure attachment and marital satisfaction (P<0.01), but no significant effect on avoidant and anxious attachment styles (P<0.05). The results of this study show that implementing the "Hold Me Tight" program can increase marital satisfaction and secure attachment and can be used in couples counselling interventions.
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